EeliousMe

2009-07-28T15:20:00.010+08:00

Everthing has been great till July came. Things just went all wrong for this month.
It's not happening to me only but also to my dear BF.
I shall now declare July for burning my pockets, everything is ka-ching involve and its so frustrating.
i'm not refering to my wedding stuff but your daily use like your laptop, transportation etc.
DAM!

But thoght this moth is a month for wasting money, it never stop to have hellagood time with frens & family right?
And so last weekend, i brought them to their virgin luge ride.

and oh ya, we celebrated the July bday boy!

As of now im so hooked with this band on their new album.

Go chk, its in stor now!
hahahahahahah!!!!

Hope Aug will be a better month for me. :)

2009-06-28T23:58:00.004+08:00

As much as i wish the fun can go on, its back to reality the moment i'm back from my Bday "leave".
and i still need to run some last min errand before our event begins.
Its again another event for our partners.
We decided to come out with "watch a movie together" gathering and here comes..
Transformer on the 1st day of their release.

Glad it was a successful event thought the cinema screw us up at a very last min, but screw equals to success...so there our hard work come to an end. Looking forward for another brain damage and also an enjoyable event.

Meanwhile enjoy our visuals with our very own Transformer..kudos to Talenthouse for their talented people!
For those who wish to rent some super heroes costume, go check them out!

2009-06-27T01:18:00.032+08:00

Crasher No.1
(Day 1)

The boy made it a birthday crasher from the very start and i was quite pissed off with this boy before this whole thing happen.
As i was abt to doze off few minutes before it tick to 12am, i recd a phone called from Watee, to look at my window. I was half awake when i talk to her and was still unsure who was i talking to. i was all afraid to see any momok,

but all i can see was a light of candles with "HAPPY BDAY" on it and with those beautiful smile of my GFs.
fyi, i still not aware that BF is there too.
With my potek eyes, and baju tido seleker.com.

Still in state of shock, i went down,speechless lar.and just as i was loving & admiring the lights of candles, BF suprised me from my back, and i threw him my house keys!hahahaha...

i was shock, shock, shock & suprise..

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Crasher No.2

(Day 2)

Its not over yet. i was all ready to dress in my jumper as our initial plan, but again he cock-up the plan and i was told to pack my stuff as we are not going back home that day.pissed, but i just follow lar.

He told me to meet at Marina Sq carpark, for god sake i was alone driving there siol..celaka

I've reached and we meet...

so, as we were talking and i'm still asking him where are we heading, he then trying very hard to divert my atention elsewhere, till he declare that he have booked a room nearby..WTH!! ...another last min!

But im already very excited when he mentioned the hotel name and straight we went to the hotel room.Then came another shock, he have booked a spa session for us...and i simply lost of words and cant believe the man i've known for 8 years will do this for me.

like halo, we are supposed to save..hahaha

lucky i do not have heart attack leh..

After our spa, he told me not to change first went we have step into the room, as usual, being me who like to ask.."y, kan nk g makan, jgn waste time lagi ar.."

and he says, "kan magrib, magrrib2 tak bagus salin baju.."...

WTH sia...and its already 7.30pm, magrib kebontot siak.

Ok, nevermind, i still listened to him, sat down, watch tv and surf the net.Here comes the sakit jantung lar eh..

Suddenly i heard a tazer sound a few times, its loud and scary..i keep on asking.

"eh aper tu, seram yer..eh g check ar...anything wrong with the room or wat.."
he buat bodoh and says "entah bunyi aper eh..."
still stunt, i stare at all the walls,

Then i heared a bday song coming from the door with my GF inside my room...ruper yer they have the room keys, dear hand over one of it to them.teperanjat berok aku sekejap!

Then we went out for dinner and chilled with nice live band just to end the perfect day!

Thank u gerls for the effort & drama mama all this while...and to the mastermind, u did it all well, i just cant stop thanking you for making my day a special one every year w/o fail. Love lu sampai mati ar dear!no wonder mati2 tak kasi aku beli that bag 2 months back..

XOXO

2009-06-14T22:25:00.006+08:00

it was a year ago we decided to take a step up to our relationship and today mark another special day to our calendar.
how time flies and i felt that i just got engaged only yesterday.

Happy 1st Engagement Anniversary

Moellie

2009-05-26T22:08:00.002+08:00

Since last week i've been busy with appointment for my personal "stuff" and not forgetting "throwing" those ka-ching. To decide on something can be real tough at time like this & complain no more as its a happy decision at the end of it.

From which to choose, comparison of prices & services to of course, picking the most worth and definitely affordable.that is of course VERY important.
I had fun and also headache at the same times. Its once in life time u got to make such important decision for an important occasion, so i shall not be too stress out.
And , tomorrow will be another "throwing" my ka-ching (again). And more throwing to come. But for now, i shall give myself a break after "throwing" tomorrow.(lol)

Enough of ka-ching & throwing, 2 weeks w/o my fav temp staff is VERY tiring. I'm beginning to hibernate & its only coming to 3rd day of working!WTH!
i shall turn in early today.

taa-taa.. :)

2009-05-04T10:20:00.003+08:00

its been awhile, i know..
been caught up with some funerals, work, my tooth surgery and some excitement!
oh well, did i forgot to mention that i was on 8 days of long MC!
i'm A-OK with the surgery and feeling much better now with my eating order...and i've just recovered from my mouth ulcer just when my gums are abt to heal.
one after another...don't know why i suddenly get those virus attack for no reason.

but all that definitely come with the best excitement for the month!hell ya, who is not happy with the extra "ka-ching" in hand huh..
rezeki, Alhamdullialah!

so till i click on this blog again!
:)

2009-04-05T15:20:00.017+08:00

So yeah, was dam busy menyebok on my GF big day last week and i shall now announce,they are officially Mr & Mrs Rosli.
After much await and preparation, the day has finally came to end with smooth ending.
And ya, Wati & I sponsored her the Wedding Guestbook!!
All thanks to Iss Haans for the good job!! we're so lovin it!

i shall let the pics complete my entry for now.

That's the Guestbook from us!

yeah da officiall!!!pls have kids quick, me & wati wanne be god-mamas!

On the way to the Bride side on Sunday.

And remember the rockchic that went all ROCK for the nite?can you recognise us now...
i hope so :)

From Moellie Inc, wishing both Mr & Mrs Rosli a happy & blessful marriage.

2009-03-16T21:12:00.014+08:00

ROCK Chic ROCK on Friday the 13th!
i'm still recovering from my FUN mode with my ROCK Chic.

so till the rockstar rock again!!

2009-03-09T22:10:00.003+08:00

there we go again for the 90th month baby!

2009-02-23T22:00:00.011+08:00

what more can i ask for.i had a good movie.had a great experience.

had a great chair to lay back with my hot chocolate especially when watching 3 hrs long of good show.

and of course had great companion. :)

he is enough to make my day after a hard day from work.

2009-02-20T10:12:00.019+08:00

So,V'day was not that bad after all, despite not celebrating with my love.
i got to entertain guest and at the same time enjoying the breathtaking island once again.

it was a dejavu went i step my feet into those cold water and when the wind decided to blow my hair to the extreme, watching those sun setting down and the wave sound playing to my ears, it was awesome!
It will be completed by holding hands with my love and kiss by the sunset.
it will be fuuuuuuuyyyyoooooohhhhhh!!
And if only the guy that piggie bag me is my love...but to bad its the big-monster Kenji :), but i still love you dude!haha
and the dinner was very-deli-licious!especially the lobster is soft & tender.

and not forgeting the significant view of the volcanoe.suprisingly the weather was not that frezzing compared to my first visit 2 yrs ago.did they lowered down the temperatue or somthing?hahaha

and i must say that the view at Tanah Lot is much better in the morning.all the high wave running after you.and not forgeting the wind again, i thik my hair is lovin it too!

Then later in the evening, we had out cocktail & dinner. Again, its all about going around talking bla.bla.bla

and i love their boots!!oh they are dress to our theme: Denim & Leather.

and the lower foyer was booked just for our function.

the trip was definitely FUN with the HARD work from my dedicated Team

and if you must know, we play HARD too!

and i left my heart once again in Bali.

2009-02-09T00:27:00.007+08:00

meet up with the usual on Sat.It was a simple day out for dinner & as usual, lepak-lepak to end the day.

and so, for the next few days, i will be spending more time with BF before leaving for my trip. :(
but for now, let celebrate our 89th mth!
yeah!

2009-01-31T18:28:00.003+08:00

not everthing can be shared, especially when it comes to your special day.

and difinitely i do not want blue hair for my wedding!
:)

can't wait for supper with love later!

2009-01-27T16:28:00.015+08:00

We had a Hellagood & Rocking holiday!

calender check!hmm...when will be the next hole-lee-da again!

im gonna miss my fiance in 2 weeks time!:(

2009-01-19T20:27:00.003+08:00

2009 has been great so far
its a brand new year with new achievement..that's for me for sure.
after 9 months of waiting, i got the key to freedom!
9 months is a very long period and it all pays off. That's for sure!
*wink*
so proud of myself not because i'm bossy, but..
how can u not be proud of yourself when u have used your own hard earned money for the pass 9 month for the freedom!
its not easy ok...when i really want something badly, i will strive for it patiently and all out!
Alhamdulliah its now over and i don't need to visit the center no more!
hahaha..

On another note, its been 19 days i've not been puffing out that stick!
*tap on the back*
Good JOB huh...and 19 is my favourite number!wats a coincidence..
hope i won't stop there and to continue to survive tomorrow, next month and FOREVER!
Insyallah!

And i'm too tired to get back to work tomorrow after a long leave since Friday...
not really long lah, but still, it's never enough for me.
i'm so looking forward for the PH next week!
yahooo!!

2009-01-11T12:37:00.018+08:00

the nite does't started smoothly at first due to some stupid refusal and fucking rude people!!
they should change their job from being in the frontline and fuck tons of fucking people!i'm gng to curse that the club will close dwn soon!!fucking dam soon!!
as many other people have lodge complain over them even in e-club! I did my research huh..

and including me, i have wrote to their managment!

Bunch of idiot!

Anyways, i have no regret for not entering that fucking club cos we fucking enjoy our nite! Though we find it quite bored at first BUT we managed to bring those mood and fucking shake those bom-bom..
The crowd was quite overwhelming once it strike pass midnite!
and we difinitely love those dirty laudry show!especially those juicy big BALLS!
And celebrating our 88th mth with our frens was awesome!
what a coincidence..
:)

HAPPY 88th Month Boncit!

And at 3.30am, we decided to call it a day and home sweet home..and someone just cant stop talking when me, Ai & Maffiz are trying to doze off in the cab , must be those too much liquid intake that cause him so becok(talkative) & energetic!!irritating!!

so people, have a great week ahed okies!

2009-01-04T19:13:00.005+08:00

"its was the worse argument we ever had.."
That was exactly what he claimed.
it was a moment of confession, anger and being me, i will never able to control those hands.
sometimes i hate argument as it can lead to worse.
sometimes harsh words just came out from those mouth w/o any evil intention and worse if it hurt other party deeply.
and my mouth can be such a stink if beyond control.
and that exactly happened last night.

After the 3 hrs argument with both empty stomache, it ended the lowest point in our entire 7 years!
it was ages since i last shed tears on my cheeks over a relationship...it was ages...
and i almost forget how to..
it was part of my ego over a promise to myself not to be so weak over a guy..any guy!
....
but last nite...it was a moment of unbearable after hearing those words right into my eyes..
it touches me soo badly that i felt, i was so..so..cruel.
yes, indeed i have no intention to do that to you and yes i do feel bad after doing so.
it was a moment of silence that we exchange our tears and i do feel much relieved after putting aside my ego of confession.
....

after much of tears, we decided to fill our tummy with prata..
so there, we ended with a simple supper at 1am!
so, who says long realationship will have no more quarrels & arguments..
its a form of understanding each other more & of course better!!

"Love,last nite just brought us even closer.."

2009-01-03T01:40:00.022+08:00

the 2nd day of 2009 just ended and it has been good so far..
and hope more smooth journey for my 2009.
and i really hope my mission can be accomplished for good this time.
Insyallah!
2008 is a year Moellie Inc was pronounced as Fiance and its a year which we will always remember & more upcoming plannings for 2009!!

if last yr i headed to the beach party for celebration, this year is just a normal party with close frens...the party will definitely feel completed if only BF was around.
But too bad he can't be there to celebrate with me on the eve..

i've got the keys from dad, and off we vrooom..
boosting up our energy..

the guys also nk boost their enerygy...

then, the party is abt to start.....*evil*

5
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4
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3
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2
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1
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HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

the couple..

and the loner fiance & a heart breaker
hahahah

and by 3am i'm already flat and dead tired...the moment i close my eyes, i can feel those songs spinning in my head!
the moment we got in the car and we just go ZZzzzzz....
thanks to Maffiz aka heartbreaker for being our pilot cum driver lar!
hahaha

k enuf of the party, today we watched the 7 POUNDS and tell u, i had hard time to understand the storyline, but in the end i DID!!!
its quite touching story though..
so go figure what does 7 POUNdS means yaw!!

what a simple yet quality time spend with yaw!*hug*

2008-12-28T22:39:00.013+08:00

hey im back!!!
indeed i did enjoy my short getaway with my beloved family.
it was not somewhere far buy just a visit to our neighbouring country.
and i tell u, the new checkpoint is so inconvenient..it make such a one big round just to get in the causeway..

I was so impatient to get home to my BF and yet have to endure with the jam!
oh ya, BF cant tag along with us to KL due to work commitment..how sad...
And to my surprise i did't shop much and i really mean it this time.
honestly i only get myself 3 items and thats it!
even though they are having sales all around, but..
nothing to my liking and i end up eating & munching through out the trip..not forgetting my late nite supper for the entire 3 nites!
*faint*

and believe it or im actually wearing y niece(8years old) swim top and my nephew (10 years old) short all because my dear sis did't inform me that they gng Sunway Lagoon!!
i cant believe it either!

and today, i throw my excitement upon meeting my BF!!!catch up with each other and attend a friend wedding..
SELAMAT PENGANTIN BARU IZAN & LAN

and oh ya...happy belated Merry Christmas!!
hahaha...i've yet to open up all my gifts...too many leh...
but all i know i recd a MP4 from my HOD!
hahahaha..

oh shit!i almost forget that i've got to work tomorrow!!oh how sian!
but im looking forward for another public holiday!

2008-12-09T23:01:00.005+08:00

87 is the number as of today..and what get more exciting is, i always cant wait for the number to jump higher & bigger each month just like our sense of LOVE!!

more exciting when Love test me on the number of every month cz i intend to forget..
its not i totally forget but i always guess a higher number that it should be!
*smack forehead*
does't matter...i still adore my boncit!
Love u!

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Love, when can we have another holiday?
*hint**hint*

*pout*

2008-12-06T19:10:00.014+08:00

pardon for my absence.
the sales islandwide just got crazy and im lack of time to update!
what a reason i know..
but yeah, the sales is everyhere and it difinitely bring, to be precise it already damage my bank a/c.
how to resist u tell me, turn right the word SALE appeared, left & back it appeared again..front?WORSE!the word just got even bigger for your attention.

but i cant deny that those warehouse/private sales really worth going..and my bank a/c is crying but the owner leave the shop with a happy SMILE!!hahaha
thanks god that this year end my work is nt as hectic as last year..
that means..i can go home early for SHOPPING!!!
*faint*
and to make things worse & exciting, the bonus is just ard the corner..
and its time for MORE shopping!!!

and btw, last week was Marlini's 29th or 30th bday...i really cant remember due to those shopping disorder!

and finally a decent photo of us.

2008-11-24T22:06:00.016+08:00

A week ago, my kecoh babe get half hitch with her beloved now called fiance.
dah jadi tunang org yeeerrrr...
hope you will overcome any obstacle along they way and definitely waiting for the big day!

now that i realise i do not have much pic in my cammy, and i almost forget that i was the camerawomen for that day!

And last weekend, another close buddy got hitched.
Congrats Milah & Izad
may u both have many2 babies to come ok..

still waiting for the moment!!both seem nervous and i can see Milah heart
beat..nervous dok.hahaha

Arr..sekarang aru SAH!!yahooo!!
settle, mlm dah ble buat anak..hehehe

Dah halal pun..can motek in public liao!

The dais.

The Bride

The Groom

Getting upclose with the bride.

Now, they going off to the Groom side

Best wishes to both of you and hope kekal ker anak cucu yer.

Truly from us,

Moellie Inc

2008-11-09T13:14:00.003+08:00

2666 days

63984 hrs

3839040 minutes

the number will just go on if i were to calculate by seconds.

HAPPY 86th Month

Moellie Inc

2008-11-08T17:57:00.005+08:00

got this in action last nite!

And Olga is difinitely georgeous.

if only im a guy, i will find a GF or maybe wife like her!
me and my forever obsessed with beautiful gerls.
back on track, im in love with ma man!
what a quality time spend with him with our movie date.
and entertaining his "berangan" tak habis-habis.

2008-11-01T15:25:00.014+08:00

it was a spoooky nite, walking almost everywehere.
you name it, there are runaway brides, starwars, nurse, barmaids,
they are all dress to suit the nite of haloooooweeenn.

initial plan was to head dwn to Movida bt due to slight change, we get it pump'in @ the pump room.
Every where was crowded with humans and the long queue at the doorstep of every happy house..we end up only the 3 of us, but yeah we difinitely enjoy the nite.

and the menyelet band member..

and the stewardess after a plane crash.hahaha

safe sex is better than no SEX..comdoms anyone???

then we bump into some ex-bishan frens..

so gerls, till we meetp and get crazy again!

2008-10-27T21:14:00.020+08:00

busy..busy..busyy like a bee..
from work to wedding
busy with the upcoming briefing
and i've just ended the "task" to my close fren wedd.

Known her from my ex-company and till now we are still frens..
Me & another 4 frens was assigned to be her bridesmaid on Sat.
it was tiring but FUN!
its the lease we can do for her on her BIG day.

Congrats Noreen & Ady!!
hope you guys enjoy the first nite on deepavali!
hehehe..

During her angkat nikah,

Then we went to Farah's crib to get changed for the dinner.
me & Anies was assigned at the reception for the Guestbook.

The deco was awesome!nice lar...

the dais

then, it was another wedding with Dear Bike fellow frens..

then i head dwn to expo with family but the pameran was so BORING!!
im looking forward for the next pameran.
and i can't wait to go JB next weekend!

2008-10-19T21:21:00.002+08:00

this is so..so..so bad, since 11.30am i have been facing the computer..
im not doing any work related but simply surfing the net, play online game & watch movie online.
but no worries i've already had my shower...like ard 6pm..
and just after i cleaned myself, my aunt came.
that is the only time i keep myself away from the lappy.

i was so dam bored at home but im just simply lazy to go out with the cozy weather, i rather stay home. Initially, wanted to chill at my sis house since i have not been to her house for raya.
hehehe, but too bad, she is out for open house and to add more boredom, my dear BF is working today!!grrrr...
*sigh*
and there i am lazing ard on my bed the whole Sunday!
and still feeling lazy for work tomorrow..Monday Blues again!
hope it gng to be a quick week to the holys and of course PAY day!!

now, back to my lepak-lepak on my cozy bed!
have a great week ahead peeeeeepol!!!
:)

2008-10-14T20:50:00.015+08:00

the past few days, i've trying my best to be my normal self.
its never easy, thats y im not born to be hypocrite!
everyone has not been behaving normally, but i will ensure that this attitude will not prolong too long.

Being out with frens definitely making me smile & feel so much better this week. Been going out for Raya with my fellow frens,tiring but FUN lar!!

those are my crazy moments with them on Hari Raya!!!

2008-10-05T00:11:00.022+08:00

one thing i don't like about Hari Raya is to seek forgiveness!!
fyi, i have hard time to do that, don't as y, maybe i'm shy, got nothing to say or how to say or simply the ego side of me!

But this year, i never give chance to that ego to appear this Raya..and i let it all out.
I cant believe it could be such a relieved!
I can't believed i did it (all thanks to Boncit for the courage. U're the best lar!)
I can't believe that my eyes were watery by those tears.
but i still managed to hold on to those tears hokay..see, ego again!
Anyway i shall not make this entry flooded with words, and i shall let down the pics to this no-red carpet entry.

My morning Raya with Boncit.

An additional person in my family photo.Yeah!
And my family pics look like a christmas tree!!haha

the Red Family

Save the Gaia Family

The black Family

Normally 1st day i will stay home and help my mum with the guest, but this year i choose to go out with Boncit side.

Then on 2nd & 3rd day its the normall visiting to my relative hse, all the makcik-makcik hse.

with my Sis & SIL

And i love to tease this mini mr bean!!look at those mole, ain't same with Mr bean.

All my anak sedare!yeh, all 6 of them.

More pics will be uploaded in my next entry..stay tune!
:)

2008-10-03T11:20:00.002+08:00

i knew it has been happening behind us.
i knew it.i knew it.i knew it!!
i'm definitely mad, dissapointed, hate at you at this moment,
but i know i cant blame you totally. mum got to be blame too.
i know & we all know she have neglected u in many ways,
but y u have to go to this extend.i mean at you age!
*faint*

i feel like crying but tears juz did't wanna to roll down my chubby cheeks.
instead i cry in silence.
i feel like confront him now, and shout out all i can, punch him hard, but i just can't do it.
i know this have to discuss in a nice manner but i leave it to my elder siblings to decide, i will just throw suggestion.

Thanks to Allah for showing us the "hint" on this Syawal. And i hope he will shine the right way to us to solve this problem.
Insyallah.

2008-09-29T21:21:00.003+08:00

Just another day to go and we will welcome the month of Syawal. i definitely can't wait to have a family photo this year as we have missed it last year.
And this year, its my 7th year celebrating with Boncit and first time as fiance/fiancee
I'm sure nothing much change though as i have been raya-ing with his family from 1st year
And i'm proud of myself that i did't miss a single day of fasting this year!(accept for that red-light)
*good job Heli*:)

I can't wait for my mani-pedi session!

Camat hali laya aberione!!

2008-09-24T13:28:00.003+08:00

Am i being selfish or wat?
Do you deserve to hear out those words i've shout out last nite?
im still wondering and yet to find the answer.
im angry to myself of having such "uninvited" feeling, but i can't help it but to just voice out to you.
I know it hurts, but its better than i keep it much longer from you.

I hope we can work this out together ok.

2008-09-09T23:07:00.002+08:00

Happy 7th Anniversary to Moellie Inc.

Established since 2001 on this very day, and we are still the crazy ppl like the old days, just that we are less rough to each other ever since the number keep rising up..wa lupsama lu banget!!*muak*

2008-08-29T21:10:00.034+08:00

Exactly a week a go, i was at a place called Paradise.
But i'm now back to reality to busy streets, working, and the expensive currencies.
how i wish life could be more relaxing always.

the view is just so breathtaking.

And how i wish i could bring back those comfy bed

And to my Dear boncit, i wanna have my bathtub access from my bed.pleaseeee.....

And how i wish i could stroll along the beach everyday just to watch the sunset.

And have a sumptious dinner on complimentary every week!i don't wanna have it everyday as it could be too boring.

And how i wish i could affort a private speedboat to bring me around the island

and if only our Sentosa is as beautiful as the Phi Phi island.

And enjoying the crystal clear water..

And having to see those colourful fishes underwater & swimming across your leg is just so awesome!

And not forgetting to take pic and hug with a handsome hot guy!

And having a delicious Tomyam & seafood at a very cheap-cheap price! Halal somemore leh & malay speaking neh

And after the yummy dinner, we burn some fats by walking along the nightlife area.its more like our Boat Quay & clarke Quay, in a more happening atmosphere!

And watching the "bapok" on duty.

And spent the 3rd day discovering the beautiful view aroud Phuket.

And do activities that cannot be done in your hometown.

Its difinitely sad to leave the beautiful place

And not forgeting the quality time spend with dear, its a memory that cannot turn back time.

2008-08-10T00:39:00.016+08:00

August has always be my headache moments of preparation for Bday event.
its my nephew bday, the only sepet-GF bday and not forgeting my one and only fiance bday.

last thurs, my company was celebrating the nation bday and we are encouraged to dress in red&white.well, i've always not supportive in this, cz it look so "boria".
so that explain the colour top that i'm wearingthat day.
we have plan line up for that day for the minah sepet 26th bday, but due to shrt of memories which hardly happen to me hokay, i've forgotten to bring her prezzie..all thanks to the lack of sleep and morning rush. but we still did a very small celebration during our lunch!

the sepet cum pekak GF

our lunch from J.CO

after the lunch, we must take the pleage especially with the ketot MPs (PAP)and the slightly broad flag pole. hard to find leh..

then we do the malay dance pose.i did't know that short ppl had hard time to bend heir knees..*chuckle*

the must have classic pose for the day.

And when the timer snap too fast than expected.

our YMCA, the jawi style.

our sabo for her.

do you that we were super good actress?we lied that we are broke that we do not have any gift for her this year.i guess she must be cursing deep dwn sia.
but how can we not get our GF a gift rite.. :)
infact we have a very big task that nite just for her.
yes, her fiance had planned out a suprise with her GFs.

from the void decks waiting the green light from Mariah to her crib, the aimless way to the guest room, from the silence killer in the guest room, from the wait for the bday gerl to end her shower, from the big whole courtesy of Mrs Shafawati on the cake, and finally from the moment we step out of the room with the bday songs when her hair was still wrap up with the wet towels and trying to figure the AV channel.
she turned with a big shock on her face!

she was so sad that no one is celebrating her bday as all her GF seems busy.
now you know rite, its all for our mission babeh!
and her dear fiance claimed to be at work and have some urgent errand to do.member bingit giler ar seh!hahaha
later that she knew her fiance was there too. with the notes than she need to figure it out

and there comes the rose with the ring!

she is surrounded by gifts

from us to you babeh

with her other half.

with her georgeous,selenger & kecohrable GFs

glad you had a great bday moments on your 26th espcially when the no is coming near to freaky 30!!
Happy Birthday Haslinda
:)

2008-07-27T12:39:00.024+08:00

So much of wanting to update the overdue pics a week ago, and only managed to get all upload yesterday.
All thanks to my card reader who is showing sign of "pms", for bloody 1 weeks.
guess to much blood flowing.
hehehe...

2 weeks ago...

It was his 23rd w/o his soft spoken GF ard. Dinner was on us @ newton.i can have the whole bowl of Tom Yum by myself..SUPER YUMMY!!

after our tummy was filled with those delicious food, we did some walking to burn those fats.
off we went to Henderson Wave

we were breathing fresh air before this pic was taken, not till this "slumber" culprit let out the 'hot air' which was due to those spicy food earlier i guess.
now look at the pics and search for that "slumber culprit"

when was the last time we took class photo.?well, we just did our very own @ Henderson Wave. outdoor shooting somemore leh..

frienship since 1999..

partnership since 2003

And the hardcore & crazy partner since 2001

then just last nite....

Can u see the black riding hood??

and till i update again yaw!

2008-07-10T22:59:00.005+08:00

it's a night for the golden voices after office hours.
it's a night for veteran & the young ones.
it's a night away from work related and
it's bonding session with them once again.

it's a nite of celebration for the Bday gerl.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY VIVIAN!!

2008-07-01T23:08:00.009+08:00

we were born in diff year.
we have have same horoscope.
we have our first name, same pronunciation.
But...
we have diff characteristic.
she is soft, im hard core!
hehehe.

Happy Bday to us!

though it was a small event held at ECP, i have great companion ard..
and thanks for everyone who sacrifice their time & effort.

till we meet up again frens...

:)

2008-06-22T14:39:00.011+08:00

noway i can complain on my bday!
it may not be a BASH!but its definitely awesome with ur other half.
sunset.good food.lovely fiance.
tell me...how can i complain??
noting is perfect but the dinner with him was absolutely PERFECT!
love ya!

2008-06-17T22:42:00.021+08:00

so much of the "suspend" moment, many could guess abt my special day.
Not only it's a advanced celebration for my 22nd, it's a day we will difinitely tell our kiddos in futures.
*wink*

after deep thought and preparation, i was relieved that it went smoothly.
Thanks to Kak Jun for her gorgeous touch and of course my companion with the gerlfriends.
Now, i shall display the moments.

k, my entry is flooded with pics liao...till i blog again!
cheers!

2008-06-13T00:29:00.005+08:00

today i got 2 surprises and it was definitely unexpected.
i think today is one lucky day for me. The story begins after lunch.
as usual i was busy doing my work.and im freaky bz lar sey this week!
so imagine when i put on my "black" face, suddenly this thoughtful moment brighten my day.
my wonderful section buy me this as my "XXXX" gift.

Surprise No.1

can u imagine how shock i was at that time.i was speechless ok.yes, my tears almost drooling dwn my cheek. Thanks to them for the beautiful gift!
:)

ok, now comes the 2nd surprise,i meet BF after work to have dinner as usual. There is nothing awkward abt him.And while we were eating, he suddenly mentioned that he need to reveal something..and the next thing i know, he drag me to the shop and bought me this;

Surprise No.2

as my 2nd adv bday gift!again i did't expect this bcz before i did told him that i wanna get another camera, and he against it and lecture me for being spendthrift. another thing is also becz he already bought my 1st gift, so i don't expect anymore from him.
and now, see what i've got!!
thanks u boncit!u'll always have surprises under your sleeve and u also a good actor hor.
hehehe...wateva it is, im LOVIN IT!
and most importantly, u being love by me! *hugs*

2008-06-08T23:21:00.003+08:00

the 9th is just a few min away and its like 5 days away to the day!
and its a triple celebration..what a perfect day ive choosed.
my cuties nephew's bday, Dad's bday n not forgeting its the day for all fathers.
hehehe..
and talking about JUNE...i wonder what he have for me this year!
can i have some clue pls dear BF...?pls...
and.....

to my boncit and soon to be xxxxxx (ehem-ehem),
we turned 81st mth this JUNE!
yeah!!
love ya babeh...always!
muah!

i definitely gonna have JJ (Joyful June)
:)

2008-06-05T00:02:00.001+08:00

The Love of Gemini with Leo

Read: i gotta agree 98% of it!!

..............

Leo person's fit into your general scheme - you are attracted to Leo,
Leo mentally stimulates you and you would like to settle down and make a life with Leo.
But, Gemini, Leo can be elusive. Very often Gemini and Leo get together to learn lessons from each other. Leo sets a fast pace and, Gemini, for once you are willing to slow down.
But, Alas, Leo is just getting started.

The signs are compatible. A sense of humor prevails in this Relationship lots of laughs.
But laughter can become shrill and turn to tears. Unless you are willing to keep up, to read, to write, to travel, to make changes, then the harmony that prevails at the beginning could sour.
Leo individuals inspire you, give you ideas, and make you want to give of yourself.
Many of your contacts and your romances are associated with Leo.
Domestic conditions can be at the center of your relationship with Leo.

There is talk of common residence, marriage you find, to a degree, peace and harmony with Leo. But, listen, Gemini: the chief result of this relationship is mental stimulation for you. Ideas are plentiful. But Leo tends to discipline you. Leo encourages you to be discriminating to choose the best of many plans, schemes, ideas, and possibilities.
Whether or not the Gemini-Leo relationship lasts, it does provide fireworks and plenty of heat. But, ideally, Gemini, you require warmth. And whether or not the heat will ultimately generate warmth depends on the degree of determination exercised by both Gemini and Leo.

..........................

Whether or not we are meant to be together for a lifetime,
i'm glad we meet and share every memorable moment then & the future to come .
hope our love will last
*hug*
:)

2008-06-04T23:10:00.004+08:00

"Everything she do is like me

From her head to her feet, like me

Trying to talk like me

Trying to walk like me

Trying to get all the boys in the club like me

....

Everything she be is like me

Trying to imitate me trying to look like me

Trying to act like me

Trying to get on the floor and shake her ass like me "

................

poor thing, ur too ego to see ur true self and

control "C" is always ur option.

2008-06-03T23:47:00.004+08:00

"After all these years

After all these tears between us

Still I couldn't find someone half as right as you

And each time I stop to think

What it is I really need

Heres what I conclude

All I really need is you"

....

Its a decision that i will not regret having it with u love

2008-05-29T21:27:00.004+08:00

Previously i touched on people being in love to compete with others.
i though ignorance is the best medicine, but i guess it just does not works on certain people.
its amazing how people bother to keep track every movement of others and always wants to be on top of others.
at the end of the day, you're just lying to yourself, worse still, you get exausted of this stupid thing.
i can be nasty and just shoot you right on you face, but again i've always have the soft spot in friendship.but that does not mean people can take advantage.
my patience level is not very high hokay..
but i guess you have just step the wrong wire..
and i will just give you the cold shoulder and don't bother to amend to make the frienship better, cz you're just an ORDINARY friend which i will not feel the pinch if i were to just dump you.
talking about frienship, i really miss having friends like SEX and the city..
they are bunch of gifriends worth keeping for a lifetime.

Kristine Davis is so awesome and her beauty is amazing..Jessica Parker is so hagard w/o make up on..Cynthis Nixon is so boring for me...lastly Kim Cattrall is soo horny-corny..(i like)
and not forgeting those gorgeous shoes and dress... *faint*
so, can i have some sushi over my body on next year Valentine?
or perhaps "ketupat" will be very melayu..hehehe..

i know studying can be boring at times, despite knowing that, i still take up courses. And exams in the month of your bday, u tell me how it feel babeh..
*faint*
btw, it was such a relieved after sorting out with my boss about my temp staff.infact he is asking me to decide if he still needed.
the fact is, i still need someone to assist me in a very consistence period, not like as and when you like to come.
he propose me a perm part time as we do not have budget for another full timer.
i'm so ok with his idea, as long there is someone to cover me during my absence, i also need to go for a long holiday hokay..life is not all about WORK..

glad that Friday is here and i'm on half day..double yeahness!!...i so in need for the weekend.have FF (fabulous Friday)everyone!

2008-05-24T23:29:00.002+08:00

one moment we were just talking about it
and the next thing i know, it is just ard the corner.
mixture feeling with no regrets definitely.
im all excited of course and at the same time nervous
just a few more errand and appointments, the day will be in very soon.

"Life has never been this great!"

2008-05-14T23:42:00.006+08:00

when u are abt to fall sick, all you need is peace and out from human traffic.
i will get all rimas with people who cannot make up which way they wanna walk..
so today, me & Dear decided to have our dinner somewhere quite.
the place was awesome lar sey...the moment we drive thru the bridge, my mind was playing those jazz music...and i started to feel the mood.
with the sun about to set down and you can see those cables car lighting up..
it was fuyooohhhh...NICE!

if only everyday life is so peaceful like this aint that great..
:)

2008-05-12T22:10:00.004+08:00

incase u guys are wondering..i'm still ALIVE!!!
hahaha..
i'm doing just fine incase ur still wondering my current status..
you know, some people just love to see what's new in your current life...
and there begins the competition!
it sucks i know..but i dont't like to compete with my own fren.
i'm born to be envy-idiot u know...try hard to get me jealous, you got the wrong gerl..
infact this fren not only trying to compete with 1 person..but also with my other frens..
*faint*
put that aside hokay, im so lazy to entertain such childish, bimbo or stupid attitude!

I started my May with a very busy schedule..my energy gets going on and on..and im getting exausted already..
day after day with all the task need to be done..
put aside for my engagement, its alomost 90% done!
*pheeewwww*
and im also busy preparing for exams...test..attenting lesson...
im trying to multi task and sometime i'm unsure if i can do it..
but deep down i know i can!

"i pray to Allah that i can endure & achieve my goals"

recently i had a big argument with mother..
this time ard, it also involve both my dad & sis..
it was all chaos but glad its over now!!
its the stage that she is gng through and we have to be more understanding..
one day I will also go through it..
definitely i wanna thank my dear lovely BF who been there for me through out the argument and console me..
he has been there for me for everthing & anything.
love ya BF!
*hug*

and this movie really make me laugh out my ass and brighten my weekend!!especially with Ashton Kutcher rubbing his salty balls!hahaha
he's HOT!!

and you guys should get your feet up to the SGFlyers..the nite view is significant.its a waste for those who did't really open up their eyes (read: fear of height)...hahaha...

so Ai, second ride?
:)

till we meet up again guys...
luv...

2008-04-12T00:25:00.003+08:00

its been so long since the last i watch movie with Dear..
as usual, we meet after work and decided to watch a show.
so, our choice was Definitely, Maybe
it was a great romantic comedy show especially when Ryan Reynolds acted and its two thumbs up! i so love to meet him in person..he is sooo charming, handsome, cute, hot and watever u can call it..

after the show, we head bck home after a tiring day at work..and i soo cnt wait to meet him again on Saturday!!yeah!!
currently, we are busy preparing for the small event and its just ard the corner..OMG!!how time flies seh..

fyi, reason for the long absence, simply because i'm simply lazy!haha..
so, till i update again when im free or when i want to.
:)

2008-03-09T12:03:00.001+08:00

yesterday's war with MUM was the worse i ever experience.she is geting on my nerve each day and beyond control!

2008-02-27T20:55:00.004+08:00

i'm bck from my short-work getaway on last Sunday.
my team was assigned to organise this trip for our top IFA (Independent Financial Advisers)
it was a Partnership Retreat for the top advisers.
Congrats to them for winning such a trip.
Thanks to ClubMed G.Os (gentle officers) for their great help and they are very organise.
It was actually my first visit to Bintan, and i shall say the ambience is awesome but definetly too boring for me.
In fact we did't get out of the hotel at all.can u imagine how bored.but the hotel did provide indoor & outdoor activities for the guest.

overall i did enjoy myself and i really miss my BF hokay..
imagine, being in a romantic place not with your love ones..oh..the feeling is sooo suck lor..
i'm so glad to be home and be with my boncit BF!

2008-02-18T19:51:00.002+08:00

4 more days, and i will leave for short-work-getaway.
i was all happy when my boss told that our spouse will be fully paid too, but not for non-married couple like me!
i'm sure gonna miss my deary yet irritating BF for 3 days.
well, put that aside, what there's to complain when all accomadation, meals & entertainment is paid for.this is one good thing goin with your company due to work related!

as for now, i will still consider to let you have my lapy while i'm away BF..
hehe..

2008-02-10T23:34:00.001+08:00

it was fun dating each other again.it's like bringing the good old days.
from the 1st kiss, the 1st time we hold hand, 1st time we took neo-prints together..
it was fun remembering them back!
nothing fancy celebrating our 77th..we spend the day with endless walk-to-nowhere.
we talked about how we can end up together, how he first introduced me to his parents..
so malu seh..but we also have a serious talk about our future plans etc.

And we fly from Vivo to Sentosa..and it was super packed with humans lor.
wateva it is, overall i had a quality time spend with my dear BF!
may we go through the obstacle together sweeheart!

2008-02-09T00:00:00.000+08:00

its another day of the month.and we still standing still since 2001.unsangka-rable...

it is a blessing knowing you and i've made the right decision of loving you.

Happy SixyearsFivemonths BF

.....Love u...

2008-02-08T21:02:00.000+08:00

i've been resting for the whole day at home. I thank the internet for saving my boredom. Been watching all kinds of videos and it somehow i recall the lame singapore show GOTCHA many years back...but this Japan prank is soo funny.
Hope you got a good laugh out!

Cheers!

2008-02-07T20:17:00.000+08:00

despite my body is extreme low batt, i still wanna post this entry as my entry has been dull with no visuals!
i was back home an hour ago before i've decided to post this.
My family & i had a nite at ECP yesterday and we are so kiasu that we "chop" the place right after everyone is back from work.
To my suprise, at 5pm, there are so many tents were already up and it was already crowded and it is not public holiday yet, it's only half working day. We wonder how early they actually reached ECP. But thank god we managed to get the right spot.

After settling down, we started to BBQ, BF only managed to come after work. Kesian dier, penat-penat but still come not like my brother!hmmmph!
i shall not spoil my mood talking abt him!
I was waiting for BF to come just to taste his tasty & very skillful BBQ chicken.
very sedap leh!!yummy!!

We spend the whole night together but not able to cuddle each other kan BF..?
anyway i'm more that happy to see you and spend time together.

ok lar, i shal start with the visual now..sure some kpoy-nist out there wanna see-see-look-look right? But i shall start with my Farewell dinner with my HOD (Vijay).

My Dept (Business Development)

My section (Alternative Channel Section)

The angels of ACS.

Vijay & my GM, Laurence

With his gift from us!

ok, now its the overnite pics, not much pics taken, as busy BBQ & eating!!haha

this was taken at 7am.

And thats my dad!watching us mandi with his big umbrella..ela..eh..eh..

that my little, Hazim Taqris.

it was a great time spending with my family & also with my BF!

and we still have the loong holiday!

2008-02-03T11:16:00.000+08:00

oh gosh!i've not update this blog for donkey years..ok bedek lar...for a month lar ok..Sometimes i feel that the mood of blogging is not there anymore or simply that i have nothing to blog..hahaha

Soon i will be going for a "holiday" somewhere on the 3rd week.This gonna be the first time i felt so not excited or look forward holiday.ask me y?well, not when it is related to work & with your colleagues..?so ya, now u get me..?enough of that, i'm more looking forward for this CNY holiday.

My dad have planned to overnite at ECP and have some mini BBQ..i so can't believe my dad suggested that.fyi, he used to nag.nag..and nag when i told him i wanna overnite by the beach, ppl used to call it "torn" u know..biasa lar zaman kanak2 riang..hehe
And now, he is suggesting this..weirdo kan..i think he wanna become the next "Bapak Metropolitan"*faint*
And for sure that piece of land at ECP gonna be the kampung melayu like always!

Eh, so fast Februay already..and many couples are so looking forward for the Valentine day kan..
Lucky thing i don't celebrate cz its not the right time to buy gifts...my pockets are suffocating you know.hahaha

oh and it sucks to think that it MONDAY tomorrow!grrr...

2008-01-13T13:55:00.000+08:00

suddenly i have the urge to blog..don't ask me why..just feel like bloggin.
i've been a super duper "good" daughter this weekend..Y..?
cz i've been sleeping the whole of Sat..i woke up at 7.30pm..GOSH!that is more that 12 hrs of sleep..then meet dear for dinner..
fyi, i LOVE to sleep..and i can sleep like a Pig-go okey..

maybe i was juzt too tired expecially this week. been staying up late at werk, up to 12.30am!!that really break the record..i've never stay up at that hour..the most is only 11.30pm.

no..no..im not a workaholic okey..i normally went off on time..but for the next two week, my team gonna be HELL busy for the upcoming event for our product launch..
easy say, this yr is all abt, budgeting, organising, meetings, targets & events!
*sigh*

Organising trip/event for my advisers to hit the target can be pain in the ass..we must think all kinda of interesting "rewards" for them etc..
maybe i sud make use of this skill for my next jobsearch..marketing maybe..hahaha..
k, enuf abt werk..wer..werk..sucks!

my sunday gonna be another sleeping day for me..to recharge myself for the next coming hectic week..
all i have to do now is sleep, surf net and wait for my Boncit confirmation whether he want to meet up after werk..

till then..ciao!

2008-01-05T18:05:00.000+08:00

i know i'm kinda late to post my new year entry but hey..i need my first entry of the year!
2007 is history now and 2008 gonna be a new chapter for some.
and it was the most nervous moment in my life a few hrs ago..and glad that i break the news.at last!
2008 has been great so far..more to come i guess.and definitely i did't end my 2007 at home.check this out!

Dear get wet first all blame to THE DUNKING TANK..HAHAHA

Then, we both get wet together!

then we welcome 2008!!

then its all abt partying the whole nite!!
and looking forward for smooth sailing journey for 2008.

Glad that i gotta celebrate my new yr with my beloved BF year after year..n hope it will remain this way always!...and my dear, we got some errand to do this 2008!

2007-12-17T23:09:00.000+08:00

my weekend was awesome though there is some empty-ness w/o dear in town.
in fact it is just the right time when my gerls plan for girls nite out!
where..?
we choosed MOVIDA..
last Friday was all abt party-ing and music!!
i just LOVE the live band..especially the HOT spanish dude playing the trumpet!he blow soo well!!oppsss!

anyway the crowd was extreme, and we did't expect it to be sooo crowded..i mean, its only Friday..forget the crowd, and we head dwn the dance flr for some shake your bom-bom..AND we ended the day preety late, all blamed to the great music and of course the companion!

we had late dinner before we party.venue: KTM.

then the party begins.

the crowd

the menyebok guy..but he's kinda of cute lar.. i meant the one in black lar

the dancer & singer..see that guy in white..that is what im talking abt..AHHHHHH!!!!soooo HOT!!

some sporty audience..

and my next weekend will be at...?????hmmmm...i sooo cnt wait for another getaway lor..and it with Dear again..
yahoooo....infact with my sis too...double yeahness!!!

2007-12-01T22:59:00.000+08:00

a week booked for gathering with diff frens.
from old frens, colleagues to ex-colleagues.
its all with one motive: GET Together

Let start with Wed, went to celebrate Lyn's 28th Bday = Bowling!

THE COLLEAGUES

THE COUPLES

Bday gerl & Family.

Lily & Rosli

Wati & Pye

Me & BF

FYI, photos are arranged according to ELDEST-YOUNGEST couple.
*PEACE*

then on Thurs, i had dinner with another group of couples at SAKURA INTERNATIONAL BUFFET (Clementi Woods). The food was A-OK..superb. alot of variety to choose.
In fact its more like a belated celabration for another Bday gerl. HAPPY 21st BDAY to Ai!!

THE FOOD:

THE MADAMs:

THE BOSSES:

AFTERMATH:

GOSH, i got so much to blog seh.ok, before i end this, let see how i spend my TGIF!
on FRI, my super duper look forward day, meet up with ex-colleagues (ANIES & NOREEN)
btw, i can say its a ADVANCED celebration too. HAPPY 24th BDAY Noreen!(if im nt wrong lar).
we head dwn to Clarke Quay than our usual meet up point. We choose TCC for dinner!
the food was awesome!!!it a must try ok..

=the DRINKS=

=the MAIN COURSE=

Noreen's choice

Anies's Choice

My choice

Me & Noreen

Me & Anies

before we say GOODBYES...till we meet up again ladies!

so readers, till i blog again (when i got the free time lor)
have a great weekend!

2007-11-18T15:07:00.000+08:00

he love to splurge for his second GF more than me!
geessssssh!!!!!
u beta make sure this is gonna be the last makeover for her.
no more spending on her!

BEFORE

AFTER

"Women just don't get it....."

2007-11-18T00:50:00.000+08:00

This week is all about staying late, tonnes of work load and not getting enough sleep..
and that dark circle is going round my eyes soon!
its sucks when the year is coming to an end!!!
very suck i tell u, till u have no time to suck ur own blood!ok that's crap...
never in my life, i've came bck to work on Saturday..NEVER!
but it break the record, today.
i dont have a choice rite, if i don't clear those SHIT...who will?
well at the end of it, it satisfice me when all my work get done..that is most important..
and i shall start my coming Monday a fresh one..*i hope*

now, i shall have a good rest on my weekend!
rechargin myself is on my top list for now!

2007-11-11T21:47:00.000+08:00

ok shit happen lately, and thats the reason why i've nt been online!!
grrrrr....my lappy throw its anger after a few days of not touching it...
but now it's fixed and you (the lappy) make me spend....

many things happen lately, meet up with Mila, to celebrate her 21st Bday this year..a mini celebration i shall say, though it's nothing much at least we get to meet up..
only god knows how bloodly busy she is..

then, over the PH, we had the couple outing, this time to Changi Airport, to sent the Bangladesh home for Deepavali..ok kidding.
we had late lunch over at Popeye and wonder-to-nowhere for few hours till we decided to scroll the bowl at Marina South.

i shall hand over to the visual for now..

then on Sunday, just another quality time spend with my boncit..

till i blog again..

2007-11-04T00:11:00.000+08:00

A day we decided to have a "getaway" somewhere "far"..
and never did we knew it could be soo easy..
we walked along the busy street of Paris..(roll eyes)

and we do a quick last min shopping before we depart..
we grab a Champagne from Hediard as souvenir for frens at hometwn.

after the whole "trip" we decided to stop "berangan" and meet the rest for supper cum match @ Monkey Cafe.

Me:Ai:Ellysa

And i badly need a rest after the whole "berangan trip"...tiring u knoe..

catch the ball?
ok maybe this will help..

still dont catch the ball?
perhaps ur just simply S.L.O.W
hehehe..
have a great weekend peeps.!

2007-10-27T00:53:00.000+08:00

We go peachy this year..

busy visiting, eating and giving (money) to kids..

from old frens to new one..it all not matter, its the bonding.

haiz..another outing again tomorrow..tired sey..
anyways, its never too late to say this..
SELAMAT HARI RAYA!!
from us..

2007-10-15T21:43:00.000+08:00

its the 3rd day of Raya..and im still stuck at home with all the relatives coming over..
maklum lar, my parents is an elderly mah..
from the malam to the 3rd day of raya..i felt sooo tired..and tomorrow b bck to werk..
*sigh*
my malam raya was kecoh and unplanned with Ai & Ida..supposed to meet up with Milah, but as usual lor hor Ai..hehe..
let the visuals tell it all..we end the crazy day at 4am..GOSH!!bukan nk tolong mak tau mlm raya....nie lar wanita zaman sekrg..hehe

then we head dwn to play bunga api..

lastly pics of all the couples..

Ai & Iss

Ida & Alep

Heli & Ayie

that's it..will update my raya pics soon aite..

2007-10-07T01:42:00.000+08:00

A healthy relationship is based on respect.

It's when:
1)you have fun together
2)you both feel like you can be yourself
3)you can have different opinions and interests
4)you listen to each other
5)you trust each other
6)you can both compromise, say sorry, and talk arguments out
7)you don't have to spend all of you spare time together - you can spend time on your own, or with your own friends and family.

"I really love and trust my boyfriend, he's like one of my best friends and I can tell him anything. He just wants us to have fun together, there's no pressure, and he doesn't make a big deal of it if I don't want to do what he wants. I can be myself with him" .

i'm glad that our arguments is over and we'r bck like normal, its alright to have one in while, just to understand each other better.

2007-09-30T22:09:00.000+08:00

Its been a long long time since i update. and my entry look so dead with thoses repeated words..
always wanted to post an entry but always damm lazy..since tonite i'm quite free...
i'll throw some entry for your reading...
Ramadhan is great for me so far...time flies soo fast that the next moment you its already Raya...
one thing great abt Ramadhan is we get to break fast with our old frens...
i've been doing alot of catching up with my old frens..
and recently i had a meet up with my ex-colleagues after soo long of planning...

ya, meet Noreen & Anies for break fast last Thursday..
suprisingly, Anies managed to stay with SBI..hehe

Posing here and there..mcm model seh..haha.

Next, on Friday its a meet up session with my old pal..Ai Rini..
as usual its always been only us w/o Milah..who is busy with her big day coming..
but still we like each other companion rite..
this time we went for Shoe shopping for raya..it always be me to buy more than i've planned..*faint*

as usual we "lepak" at our usual place and camwhore..

ok thats it for Friday..and Saturday is a shitty day for me and dear..i shall not elabrate more..but it was a day that "something" in me lost it virgin..
hehe..

did u spot it..?there goes my virgin hair...haha.. and now i shall enjoy my 1 day MC tomorrow..!
till i share another enrtry again..
see ya..!

2007-09-08T20:49:00.000+08:00

i'm all alone at home now, and im so hungry.
it Saturday nite and i'm here rotting at home.
i'm so lazy to drag my feet out even to 888 to buy food.
sorry gals for the rejection, i just got no mood to go out lar..

its less than 6 hrs i was seperated from dear and he already been missed.
a nite spend over at my place is never enuf..ehem..ehem..
especially when parents is at home..
i like it when dear slept over as i will feel that we are more like siblings than lover..
parents will buy food for us, wake up late and watched TV together, fight over the lappy & PSP..i just LOVE it though it may be irritating at times.

now all i have to do is watch VCDs and wait for my aunt from KL to come..
i've just realised that many are having Kenduri for the Ramadhan..
here comes fasting again..*sigh*

i soo cant wait to meet up with dear tomorrow(again)...
he's the best companion ever...
and we turned 6...yahoo!!

2007-08-22T16:14:00.000+08:00

Like i've said, his bday prezzie is all set to show.
and the smile shine upon receiving it.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MUHAILY.
a year older and be young always..
i'm glad and as expected, u like it..
*wink*

i'm so in love with the cuppies colour..

muke ader senyum brother..hehe
suker lar tu...
then we had our dinner b4 meeting up Abg Mimi & Kak Dada..

his

Mine

Then we went karaoke - ing with his cuzzie..
it was a last min though..but we had fun lar..

and the bday boy..end the day with the biggest smile eva..

2007-08-11T00:22:00.000+08:00

August is packed with bday.
so many august babies, no, im talking abt the old ones, nt new born.
BF bday is ard the corner..and his prezzie is all set to show.. but he still have to wait..
...
8 Aug is another someone bday.
HAPPY 25th Bday Lily!!
may u grow taller and have bigger feet..
hehe.
we gt her the puma bag..and of course she lioke it..

since she cant join me & wati for a chill, we go crazy at out port after werk..
this is how ugly u can be when u really like what u got.

gerls just wanna have fun rite, thanks to Pang who can entertain our madness and he was the photographer exclusively at B2 ONLY!haha

the classic way of taking photo..

you better run fast when u see this evil moster after u..

the next time u take pictures, just be sure who's beside u..

the few pics taken b4 we say gdbye to lily..

lastly the perfect pic with Lily.

then its just a date for me & Wati..poor her, BF in Alaska huh..hehe

and i ended my day with this pic..

2007-08-02T23:04:00.000+08:00

Standard of living here is getting expensive..everwhere go up...never see anything gng dwn the prices.Having sales but end up paying for higher tax..it does nt make any diff.
and i heard they gng to increase the transportation fee.
we are paying a starting of $0.90 by bus.and we are gng to pay even more?
we just had the increase somwhere last year and we doing it again. To what level will they stop increasing the fare, even it is increase by a cent..it make big diff to the low income ppl, imagine ppl who earned less that $800 per mth..okey this is random..btw...

i watched The Simpson yesterday with boncit after so long never meet..it's funny, i so love adult cartoon.
i soo cant wait for weekend.
gd days peeps!

2007-07-29T14:32:00.000+08:00

sometimes we know we have plans, but we simply do not noe when to start the engine.
after all the thoughts and discussion..i'm willing to sacrifice..
serioulsy i did't expect them to dicuss this matter so soon..
to me, its quite too early but to them, its abt time..
well, we are starting it slowly parents..so be patient.
somehow my sis was excited over the discussion..ur time is already over sis...
okey enought of this clueless dicussion if you guys been wondering..

my weekend was spend at home and family..
i really miss my baby..he've been busy wroking like a bee..
and im stuck here at home watching DVDs and lazing ard..
syiokness rite..

oh..it sucks when to think it is MONDAY tomorrow!
*sigh*

2007-07-15T01:18:00.000+08:00

when guys got busy or simply lazy to go out with us..
we just wanna have fun and a little get out with frens.
we decided to leave our bf at home and go dating..
it was fun again feeling like we're single again..!hehe..
we had our normal chill out and share the hottest gossip ever!
and when we found a place with no humans ard..we we start our photo session..
i wonder if the cctv was on..GOSH!that must be embarrasing moment of us!

so, after all the camwhore..window shopping..gossipping..we decided to call it a day..there goes our date today, no hanky-panky okey..
*chuckle*

2007-06-28T20:42:00.000+08:00

when was the best time to get free stuff from ppl..
i say, when it's ur bday..recd prezzie mah.
This morning, i felt sooo fucking sleepy gng to work..
but that face changed when i saw something under my desk..
its a huge bag with a box in it.
out of curiosity, i opened and saw a note..
"happy Bday Sweetie"..i was so suprised & of course happy lar..
and not only a note ok..it comes with this...

Thanks again babes..i'm LOVIN it!
Extra thanks to Wati for gng extra mile to sent it over yesterday nite just to suprise me this morning..

And guess what?Friday is here!!!
yahooooo!!!!

2007-06-24T13:02:00.000+08:00

if ur given a chance to be someone else..what do u wanna be?
angels?, princess?, dwaft?, president?
if u ask me, i wanna be powerpuff for a day only..
but, i did not dress like one yesterday..i really got no time as i'm juz bck from my trip.

The theme for our D&D was "i wish i am a..."
many came with colourful, wierd and daring costumes.
We had fun eating, laughing, and of course camwhore.
ok, aku malas nk type panjang...u all pandai2 lar tgk gmbr dan fahamkan keadaan pada hari itu ye...
kalo masih tak puas, ah go lar to my photo album ye..

Me , Lynn & Wati

the model tak menjadi..hehe

the party end preety late, thanks dear for fetching me..
you noe i adore u rite..
and let me tell u again, i was alcohol free yesterday..
i was controlling myself okey..so stop assuming that i drink..
thanks for the effort & concern dear...
*hug*

ok, have a great Sunday everyone!

2007-06-22T19:10:00.000+08:00

yeah!i'm legally 21! Got the key already..
and my "honeymoon" is over..
:(
tis year birthday was different..i was treated extra special..
As usual, it was celebrated with my dear boncit.
this time was at BALI!i had so much fun and it was an experience for us!
this is the best birthday treat ever!
someone who love nature, BALI is definitely the place.
the sun, sea and sand..was all wonderful.

the beutiful Kuta Beach..

my wooden Harley...its hand made okey.

The padi field...nice view...
viewing from the top, it feel so relaxed and peaceful..

Us with our driver..

The first bali-bomb

aND, This is along Poppies lane & Kuta area...lots of place to shops..
but Bangkok is better place to shop lar..

The significant and had our lunch at the top view!!

The hotel that we stay..Harris kuta resort..
Nice concept and a budjet rate.

and finally my prezzie..MP4..

thanks baby..its okey if it's juz an MP4..its abt time that i need a new one.
what matter most is, we had a great time together..
Love you lots!
*hug & kisses*

And of course 4 days there was not enough..
its so sad to end the trip..and so we took a final walk along the beach..

A place where i will sure give a visit again..

For more pics..you no where to find..
Go to MY multiply!

next stop: Bangkok (dec)

2007-06-11T20:22:00.000+08:00

With every step we take, we take it seriously.
With every moment we spend, we make a memorable one.
With every kisses you gave, i kept it deep in my heart.

Many years have past, but our love last till today.
and hope it last forever.
the day, we entered each other life..,
with much endurance, patients & perserverance, thank god we've come this far.
the strenght we've put in together, the trust we hold in each other..
which we can never afford to let go.
after 69mth together, it never change..
never mind the roughness in us..
nevermind the yelling/pushing/in public..that's the unique in us!
the love is still so strong .
of course we know when to be sweet & tender to each other.
right dear? *evil smile*

On every 9th of the month, mark the special day to us.
A day which we never fail to forget and wishes each another.
A day which we will spend extra special despite our busy schedule.
whether it's just the 2 of us, or with frens..
it's just not matter..
the fact is, the day is remembered and being by his side is more than enough.

We met up with his cousin for dinner..it has been awhile since we last met.
as usual, we gossip, laugh at people,and..camwhore..!

their excalator post!

our lepak session...

Udi, Ira, Ayu & ME

For more, CLICK here

And the must have pic for this entry..
The most "rough" couple you can ever find...

And on 10 June, its a special day for these somebody..somebody who i knew since the kental school days..somebody who hate guys and always end up being match make...this somebody is Nurmilah...Finally & of course an unbelievable event to me & Ai.Happy engagement babe..dah jadi tunang orang..we stay through out with her...

and of course she look diff, someone who never like make up...it came out with WOW!

The two "unpaid assistant" with the gorgeous..

we will be waiting for the really big day okies..insyallah!
To view more..SELF-SERVICE okey..

Overall, my weekend was awesome!
1 week to go...!yahoo!!

2007-06-07T21:29:00.000+08:00

oh yes..the day is coming near..
many would have some special occasion prepared for this June..
and i'm talking abt my pal, Mila..for her engagement..
oh well, sape lar sangka, a person who hard to fall in love is first to engage..
eh Ai?

Infact, Me & Ai had a meet up session with her last weekend..
too catch up with her..and of course to "kaypo-kaypo"
hehe..we had so much to talk about after sooo long tak jumper..
when i say long..it means really really long...
Look..
this is the last meet up in 2006

And this..was a week ago..

Now, spot the similarity..
if u spoted it right..yes..we took on the same position!!
haha..

What happen when u used the self timer..and it doest snap on time..or u post for the camera too late..
well...

it might just turn out perfectly like this...

haha...

so, we shall be meeting up again this weekend...
see ya soon again ladies.!

2007-06-02T13:56:00.000+08:00

i'm a dober superrb good gerl nowdays.
i've learn to stick at home and spend time more with my bed.
weekend never been the same again..
lately..and i do not noe why..i'm so lazy to go out..
do i make a good daughter or Gerlfriend??

and well June is here...
16 days to go..i soo cant wait...
i cant wait to splurge and indulge myself..

See...even the tickets are ready...
apalagi...countdown lar..
hehe...

have a good weekend everybody!

2007-05-29T20:25:00.000+08:00

i'm soo pissed off NOW!..
i was all fine today untill i reached home an hr ago..
hoping that i can fill my empty tummy with home food..
but guess wat..?
no FOOD!my mum did't cook for today!
i im hungry nak mampos okey...and i tot my dad coming home as usual 7pm..
but NO...he is still outside now, buying food...
grrrr....

ok enuf of hungry..food and anger..
i'm glad that May is coming to end..
and that spell out JUNE!
JUNE is a month to SHOP!
and also the month you will go.."koyak"..
hehe...
till i blog again if im not lazy..

2007-05-20T22:26:00.000+08:00

sorry for the long absence.
i was stuck with my bed, pillow, tissues..
that's hw i describe when i fall sick.
with 40 degree high..i cannot afford to get out from bed.
my weekend is burned at home..
ya..i slept enough and i felt better..
BUT not better enough yet to go to work tomorrow..
BUT i still have go rite cz i cant afford to get another MC.
anyway i'm sick of staying home.

now that im in the verge to recover.poor boncit to get the sickness.
blame him for kissing me..hmmmft!
or are we just like twins?
....
have a great MONDAY everyone..i wana have early sleep.
gd nite!
*faint*

2007-05-15T21:32:00.000+08:00

I reached home and saw an envelope attention to my name. Once glance i though its the usual bill statement. Had my shower, dinner and suddenly my dad asked how much i get.
i was all blur..no idea what is he refering to. I was told to open that letter and all i could do is to put wide joker smile...*wink*

Many would also be receiving the GST $$$...though is not that much..glad i was eligible for it..
i did't expect to get cz i've not even 21..
haha..

on another note, i am all nervous for my result. oh yes, my result is out..i've yet to collect the result slip..maybe i shall collect it tomorrow.
wish me luck!

2007-05-06T18:46:00.000+08:00

I spend my Sunday sleeping, eat, sleep again, and eat!
i'am so fucking lazy today..almost like a pig..
hoik..hoik..!
i woke up earlier to watched the Suria Segar, but it does not make me segar in any way.
had my late breakfast. w/o having my morning shower,
i continue with my sleep till 5pm, ewwww!!i know...
but when i'am lazy, all i wanna do is SLEEP and more sleep..
nothing else..
my mum sure put a wide joker smile, cz i did't even step out from he house.
normally i will be gng out with friends when dear is working, but not today..
i guess boncit is also very happy..but i cant stand his nagging to wake me up..
saying that a gerl should't behave this way..should wake up early, get dress and do some housework...sounds more like my mum lar u boncit..

now i still feel sleepy..cant wait for dear to end werk...sooo wanna talk to him.
and, monday is coming...that's bad!

2007-05-01T23:19:00.000+08:00

oh..i feel like SUNDAY people...
due to Labour Day, i almost thought that tomorrow is MONDAY.
and thank god is already mid week.

ok.lets recap what i did for the past few days.
hmmm...fyi, me & boncit is a movie freak..
don't be surprise if you happen to bump into us for straight 4 days to the cinema.
*wink*
but this week was't that bad.
yesterday we watched the midnight malay movie.
JANGAN PANDANG BELANKANG.
and i tell u, i really don't dare to turn back at all till today..
it was FUCKING horror movie that i almost cried..
and my heart almost out from my ass!
ok.enough, don't make me cant sleep today again.

Today, i'm all excited for the Laba-Laba man!
yeah, u know what i'm talking abt..
the SPIDERMAN 3
everywhere was crowded and tickets were selling fast.
so, we decided to watched at Balestier, as we thought "ulu" place will not be that crowded.
but.i was wrong..
everyone is catching that spider.
the shows lasted for 2.5hrs, and it hurts my fucking BIG butt!
overall, the shows was two thumbs up!
yeah!

Boncit & Becok

my solo pics after the movie

Dear with his "madu" all set to go..

we had a hellaGood day today.

so, i guess i will be seeing you another 3 days later boncit.
to all, till i blog again.
ciao.!

2007-04-23T21:18:00.000+08:00

yesterday, i just could't put myself to sleep.
all i wanna do is to talk with my Boncit.
though its already pass 1am and i'm working the next morning, i still cnt shut my eyes.
i forced Boncit to talk to me till i fall asleep. Though he was sleepy, he still love me rite, and so he have to accompany me.

Yesterday, we took the day off from my "madu".its about tyme to give us a break.
we watched Hills have Eyes 2..
awesome!i watched the 1st and for sure the 2nd is more happening with more action, and more gross lor.
after the whole lot of gross date movie, we decided to end our outing early.

when was the last time you actually talk about how u begin your relationship, or how u end up with ur partner.
well, i just did yesterday.*wink*
i LOVE the old time stories on how hard he tried to win my fuckin harded heart!
how he gets my no, his pick-up line and stuff.
we had a good laugh at it, infact i cant believe that i can be soo difficult and hard to get..
hahak..(read:i was't attracted and in love with him until we turn 1).
infact we almost not in contact, and all thanks to me who loves sending sms to many.
and thanks to him tt he lost his hp, and manage to get his sim-card bck.
and thats when we get in touch again.he is suck a pest at that time..
the first coincidence met up in the train..and happened that there's seat beside me.*gosh*
that was the first tyme i saw him w/o specs..

and so, when was the first time u and partner hold hands and what abt ur first kiss..?
*wink*
and this is funny, never in my life, a guy will ask my permission to hold my hand.he hit that record book!.but i put my hats off him for respecting me.
and our first KISS!!awwww..its soo funny i tell u, i shall not elebrate though.
hehe..
in wat ever ways we went thru, his patient pays off.(read: no man can ever tolerate my fucking attitude, abusive girlfriend like me).
no matter how long it takes, i'm thankfull, i fall for him, and if i can turn back time..i wish i had fall in love with him earlier

My hope is to continue our story as long as we can.thats our storyline..whats yours..?

2007-04-17T23:26:00.000+08:00

its been long week for me, infact been very busy.
ad its only Tuesday.
its my exam week and i screwed up!
i'm caught with flu, cough & fever..
of all time, during my exams..
exam FEVER!
haha.

i so cant wait for weekend because, exams over.
oh ya.i'll be on leave and there goes another workload for me next week.
shit..one after another.

hey, wats hawt now on TV..
i've seen the ad for Miss Singapore and the malay audition thingy..
oh ya..ANUGERAH..
oh very the meluat-malat...no one is attractive for Miss Singapore, infact they look soo ugly and no "tetek", all too skinny and UGLY.
Anugerah, so many the "mat" & "minah"...pls listen to ur voice first lar..aiyoh, cant they tell that they have an awful voice.
gosh.

...
and now, let me continue my nite talks with Dear.
*wink*

2007-04-09T21:07:00.000+08:00

A day that we should be spending time together, meet up and perhaps have dinner together.
but things never work out that way today.
i was too busy at work till i have no time to have a small talk with him.
Each call will be cancelled or answered for a few sec.
The moment i call him up which is his abt-to-go work time, he is busy to get ready for work.
haiz...
now, no more night talks when he's at work.
what a suck to celebrate our monthsary today.
i truly hate this feeling.
But, i'm glad i've spend enought quality time over the weekend with him.

Now i sungguh the miss him leh.
:(
i miss his voice, miss the his bapok voice, miss his after bed voice..so the sexy-mercy..
i miss his touch, i miss his smell, i miss playing his "bulu-kaki", i miss doing facial for him
oh man..i miss everything in him...
its just been a day, and i've miss him soo badly.
awww....
my fingertips been wanting to dial his no, but i know he is busy working.

Help...!!!i'm hunger to hear his voice,
is that so difficult.
:(

Dear, you been missed by me..(again)
Happy 67mth Boncit..
muak!

2007-04-07T13:32:00.000+08:00

what a super-duper long weekend tz week..
actually not so long lar.hehe

First and formost, wishing Shafawati, who was born today,

HAPPY 22nd BIRTHDAY

Hope you reaaly like that prezzie...i noe you will...

And so, me & lily decided to pre-celebrate her birthday yesterday since we have our own plan today.Lily decided to drive her mini van along and so we drove in to Sentosa..Though Lyn unable to make it due to family commitment, we did enjoy ourselve.

I woke up as early as 9am to meet up Lily at bishan, she look extremely cute with her mini van, i cant even see her on the driver's seat.
*giggle* Then we head dwn to pick up the birthday babe at harbourfront and guess what!? It was fucking long jam to sentosa, and pity Wati have to wait us for almost an hour. But it worth the wait my dear.hehe

Soon we arrived, find a good parking spot, settle dwn and start our bitching session.

First dedication from the birthday gerl..and me being the interviwer..*wink*

I'm so lazy to do the talking, so, let my representative do it okey..
introducing the photo talker..hehe
Happy viewing, and kapoy-ing aite.

This is super-duper candid..we did't even noe lily took tz when we were laughing like hell!!haha

The triplet..

tz is a frog-style post...trying to swin on land i guess..
wtf!

Next stop. we head dwn to the skyride & luge..the q was fucking loong i tell u..

On the skyride...
Wati is soo scared like hell sia..harap jer badab besar, penakut..
hehe..look at her reaction, so the tak bole angkat sia..

Next, the luge...

All set to goo for the ride!

After the whole great day with them, i meet up with dear later that nite.

nw, i need a good rest...c'ya!

For more pics, click here

2007-03-29T23:48:00.000+08:00

Activity: Mini shopping
Total Item: 4 (Bag, Shoe, Top, Skirt)
Total Time: 45min
Total Spend: $86.60

Heli, there is no way you can run away from SHOPPING. You simply flash your card & there u go with ur stuff u've picked. You love to splurge on stuff you already have, and which, will never be enough for u. You get sicked of ur stuff soo soon and there u go splur-ing again. You can walk the whole town for freaky straight 5 hours without having a break in between, and that really helps to shread away some of your fucking fats.

You are born to shop and your ideal job was supposed to be Professional Shopper, too bad u're not. You always love to shop alone(preferable) cz u know, noboby is there to stop u from buying. You are frikle minded when it comes to shopping, and you may end up buying both item. You never really believe in luxuries stuff, infact you always go for cheaper with the same quality & design as the branded ones. Changing your wardrobe has always been a routine for you and that's one of the reason you never splurge on luxuries stuff. And at the end of it, you really make a good shopper with good bargain=good grab.

Good day.

2007-03-24T21:39:00.000+08:00

my Sat morning starts very early, meet with Wati & the rest for the fish-spa.
this feet spa is something diff, it is popular in Japan,
before that, we head dwn for some dragonfruit farm..its quite boring though as i don't really fancy flowers.

The Dragonfruit.
Now that i know it actualy grow from a Cactus..

This one look like a banana, but its actually part of the dragonfruit plant.

I find this plant dam unique because, look at those curly thingy...
it looks like a telephone wire rite... and like greeny curly fries!

ahaak!

Next stop - Orchid Nursery

And our last destination - Fish spa..
I'am all excited, but i end out shouting alot cz its tickliest...
god noes how loud i can shout..

Look at those fish, they are all hunger for my "daki"..
they will suck all the dirt, and i tell u, i hate when the big fish suck-suck my feet..
giler semacam seh..
But, after awhile, i get used to it, and i feel so clean & clear after that.
:)

Watch-out! They being attached..hahaha

All the clean & clear session, i so cant wait to meet up with Dear..
Chill out & had dinner together before he off to work..
*sigh*
working on Sat..?
BOooooriinng!

Ok, i shall end my Sat early cz i'm having morning class tomorrow.
oh WHAT!on Sunday.. ?
yes rite!
*faint*

2007-03-23T21:47:00.000+08:00

my Friday starts all A ok. I took mc not because i'm sick but to accompany my mum or her apptment. my leave is now soo limited and that leave me no choice but to MC.
As usual, the waiting time always make me sick and bored.

Nothing much happen lately, been spending time with dear more often now.
when i'm off to work, he's back at home, when i'm back at home, he's out to work
*sigh*
wonder how will it be if we're married..
hmm....i guess i will be a Desperate Housewife.
haahaa..
k ciao, i'm all excited with my fish-feet spa tomorrow with my colleagues.
bye!

2007-03-15T17:01:00.000+08:00

i'm bck updating my blog
where...? in my office..!
gosh! my life is like a dead fish w/o my lappy for few days.
all thanks to Sis, that i have to be seperated with lappy.

watched 300 yesterday..
AWESOME! if your fan of action movie,
this is the show not to be missed.
Better than Lord of The Ring.
So many upcoming movies that i wanna watched..
Transformer is one of them.

Weekend gonna be hell for me..
BECAUSE.....
i'm having my revision for my exams..
and guess wat...?
i've not even open-up the book for this subject.
*faint*

But i'm sure my stress-ness gonna be cures by Dear after that.
*wink*

2007-03-08T21:11:00.000+08:00

For past weeks, we have not been meeting that often.
And all due to our busy schedule -work commitment.
After 8 hrs of working or maybe 12 hrs (for him), we are too tired to meet up.
well, i'm A-okay with it as long we keep ourselve update.
at times we talked for min 31sec and thats it.
*sigh*
even, we'r nt sure if we are able to meet up tomorrow
*triple sigh*
Thats shows how hectic our schedule is for past weeks.
At the end of it, its all about TRUST & UNDERSTANDING.
For now, 3 words for u:

i MISS U...

*hugs*

2007-03-04T23:42:00.000+08:00

my previous entry was a little bit too harsh for some ppl.
and so, i happen to browse thru some positive tips for us or maybe some couples ou there.
as i was quite affected by that, this article really widen up my mind - mentally.
So how do we really help to understand each other.

Read:

"The key is empathy. Empathy isn't the same as sympathy or pity. It means being able to put yourself in another's position, to feel what they feel and see what they see, without losing yourself in the process. And it means you do all that even though you may disagree with a partner's perception, opinions, or feelings. Take 30 minutes a day, at a time that works best for both of you, to empathize with the stresses and strains you are each experiencing in other areas of your life".

Empathy Don'ts

Don't stonewall (ignore what a partner is saying).
Don't minimize a spouse's concerns: "What's the big deal?" "You're always so sensitive!"
Don't rush to fix the problem: "Well, if I were you I'd..." or "You should have..." Many people mistakenly believe that downplaying worries or offering advice is helpful. In fact, pat reassurances often magnify negative feelings, since they force a person to try even harder to feel acknowledged. Women especially resent a partner's interruption with solutions, preferring instead to simply vent and know that someone is really listening.

Empathy Dos

Do pay attention. Set aside the newspaper or catalog and turn off the TV when your partner is talking. An occasional uh-huh or nod of the head indicates you haven't zoned out.
Do validate feelings. "He gave that special assignment to the new recruit? I can see why you're annoyed."
Do ask questions with genuine interest. Make sure your partner knows you heard what he or she has said. "So how did you respond to him?"
Do respond with affection, understanding, and support: "I'm really sorry you have to put up with that." "Oh, sweetheart, that could happen to anyone. Don't be so hard on yourself."
Do show support. Take your spouse's side. "I think your boss went a little overboard, too," is appropriate. "Well, you shouldn't have been late in the first place" isn't.

And i like this part as well;

Read:

Rules for a Fair Fight

"Before any couple can even begin to solve their problems, they have to learn how to use their anger constructively. How can anger be constructive? Use it to explore the underlying causes of your disagreements, and you'll find ways to address both of your needs.
If bickering punctuates your days; if arguments escalate quickly until you're both shouting things you later regret; or if you too often smile through gritted teeth while your stomach is roiling like an ocean in a hurricane, the following rules can help you defuse the rage and focus your energies on practical strategies for change."

Do this;

Remind yourself that it is okay to be angry, and don't feel guilty about having those angry feelings. Women, especially, grow up believing that it is unladylike and bitchy to express any negative feelings. Better to suppress anger, they're taught, than express it. But there are times when anger is legitimate and those occasions must be recognized and addressed. Once you do that, you'll be in a stronger position to say how you honestly feel and find a path for change.

Understand that although you disagree, you are not enemies. No matter how much people love each other, differences will eventually trigger conflict. Fighting fair means you will not attack each other -- physically or verbally. Name-calling, cursing, screaming, or blaming are verboten. So, is threatening separation or divorce.

Never use something that has been previously told to you in confidence as a weapon in an argument. When you do, you betray the trust your spouse has placed in you, and make it harder for your partner to feel emotionally safe in the marriage.

Never walk out of the room until you either both agree that an argument is over or have decided to table the problem and chosen a specific time to bring it up again.

Acknowledge each other's feelings and perceptions, without judgment or criticism. There's no "right" way to feel, and there will be times in every marriage that you simply will not agree. But you should always make the effort to unravel what is troubling your partner and show genuine caring for and awareness of his or her emotional experience. Phrases such as "I never thought of that" or "Tell me more about what you're thinking" will help you break out of an anger stalemate.

For now, this one useful info for me at the moment.

2007-03-03T12:43:00.000+08:00

1 M/a/R/c/H marked the most dissapointed & frustration day for me.
i HATE when ppl hide or lie things from me for a period of time.
i rather know abt the news on the day itself than i found out Months later.
Its heart-breaking okay!
Thanks to GOD for the accidential evidence.
bf, there is no way you can hide things from me, cz GOD is great.
though it does not involve 3rd party, you still HIDE
And you bloodly know how much i HATE it.

If you have not been hiding this, i would not be nagging & throw my anger to you like this.
An you bloodly know how ugly & mean i can be.
You blame me for not being understanding, eh look, if you have told me earlier, i would have given my HONEST opinion & its up to you to make your decision.
Afterall, it your family affair.

For now, i just don't feel the sense-of-belonging in this relationship.
And due to this, it makes you NOT the one for me yet.
Sorry to make me say this, cz you have dissapointed me deeply,
and i'm affected by it.

But i've tried to cool dwn and be normal with you.
Sorry for not entertaining you or talk to you like i used to.
I'm still sad and DISSAPOINTED.
BUT i've tried.

2007-02-22T23:17:00.000+08:00

what a short week after the super-duper long holidays.
back to work with expectation of lots of email..
but hey, i've been busy surfing the net instead at work for past 2 days.
i hope tomorrow gonna be the same too.

Mum finally discharge.FINALLY!
still, i need to do all the housework untill she really gets well
*giggle*

Nothing much to update, just looking forwards for spa session with Sis this weekend.
till i blog again peeps!
:)

2007-02-18T22:54:00.000+08:00

laundry - check
mopping - check
washing toilet - check
change bedsheet - check
wipe windows - check
All check!
all done on my Saturday morning.
No..no..its not my CNY spring cleaning...
it's been soo long since i hold on to my cleaning weapon
all thanks to mum at hospital, tt i have to do all this.
:(
i'm always lazy when my mum asked me to do housework,
ar, ambik ko Heli...

When to watched Norbit on Sat with honey and today we spend the whole day over at my place before heading dwn to ECP to chill..
and as expected, ECP gonna be like the Malay Kampong...
all like the "pelarian" siak...so pack, happening sia the family...
ader yg bawak TV skali and even katil,yes you hear me right.
i wonder if anyone bring along their refrigerator too..
hehehe...

well wat a day with honey i had after soo long we had this quality time together.
rite dear?
may we cherish every moment we had (cz i do!)

and to all, happy holidays!